My son was just born, and while a few photos will go on the likes of Facebook and Instagram, overall my partner and I are wanting to keep our shared photos private from the EULA abuses that we all know and hate.

Does anyone here have any good suggestions? I would create my own front end, but I can’t swing hosting or a static IP to do it from my local box. Are there any companies out there who aren’t total shit bags who claim immediate irrevocable license to all of my photos to do with whatever the fuck they please?

    • Lem453@lemmy.ca
      31·
      9 months ago

      This is the way, immich is insanely fast and performant

        • shastaxc@lemm.ee
          1·
          9 months ago

          Nice. I’ve heard good things about it previously and it seems like it’ll check all my boxes. I’ve just been trying to figure out what to do for monthly backups to the cloud. I don’t wanna risk losing all my extended family’s photos in a hurricane or house fire.

    • daq@lemmy.sdf.org
      25·
      9 months ago

      Seems too expensive. Most people that owned a phone with a camera for the last few years would easily be in the $200/yr plan. I know I am.

      That’s the cost of Amazon and Walmart subscriptions combined just to get one benefit of Amazon subscription.

      I realize people here tend to shit on Amazon, but they never leaked anyone’s photos so unless you share them yourself, they are perfectly safe in AWS cloud with unlimited storage.

  • Imprint9816@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
    202·
    9 months ago

    Proton offers a cloud photo storage similar to Googles but its all E2EE. A bit clunky compared to google but much more privacy friendly.

      • DreadPotato@sopuli.xyz
        23·
        9 months ago

        Mega doesn’t come with VPN, encrypted email and PW manager with integrated simplemail that ties in to your proton mail.

        Different levels of service of course costs different amounts. If you don’t want or need any of the other things, then yeah Mega could be the best option for you.

          • DreadPotato@sopuli.xyz
            1·
            9 months ago

            Ah fair enough, didn’t know they also had a VPN service.

            Does bitwarden integrate with something like simplemail to create unique addresses on the fly for accounts you create? That’s the feature I like the most about protons PW manager. I can easily just create a new mail address for an account somewhere that automatically forwards to my proton mail, but I can also answer with that unique mail from my proton mail.

            I don’t use my mail for storage, and santiize content often, so I only need a few mb.

            The 500gb on the drive is more than enough for my photo backup. There’s almost 10 years worth of photos on mine and I still have plenty space left.

            • youmaynotknow@lemmy.ml
              1·
              9 months ago

              Does bitwarden integrate with something like simplemail to create unique addresses on the fly for accounts you create?

              I have bitwarden self-hosted, so I have no idea if they offer that with their cloud service (maybe look into the paid option, I think it’s just around 10 dollars a year), but the self-hosted does not have that option.

            • ryannathans@aussie.zone
              1·
              9 months ago

              Bitwarden has email alias integration on free accounts

              Wonder if it’s worth upgrading a proton mail subscription for cloud storage or having a separate mega is better, I already get 50gb on free tier

    • Sips'@slrpnk.net
      7·
      9 months ago

      Been a customer for half a year here now and it is such a good service! Easily worth the cost. Highly recommend checking out there website to go through their feature set, their level of transparency is beyond good 🙌

  • Dessalines@lemmy.ml
    11·
    9 months ago

    I self-host Photoprism, and use it to share albums privately with people.

    The flow goes:

    • I take pictures with my phone
    • Those get synced via Syncthing to my photos folder.
    • Photoprism is set up via docker, with my photos folder added.
    • neutron@thelemmy.club
      7·
      9 months ago

      It can become really messy if one family member deletes a picture by accident and everyone complains. I’d use Syncthing for machines I personally manage.

    • Adalast@lemmy.worldOP
      5·
      9 months ago

      This could be a good option. I will have to look into it. I know some of our family is not the most savvy (lucky to be able to use FB) so I may have to look into building a front end on top of it for them, but this is a solid start.

  • brian@lemmy.ml
    4·
    9 months ago

    I know you said you can’t do your local box, but there’s no necessity for a static IP to do that. Dynamic DNS is relatively easy to set up, I suppose provided you have a domain name you own (which you can find for very reasonable prices).

    • BearOfaTime@lemm.ee
      71·
      9 months ago

      Or setup Tailscale and enable the Funnel feature for whatever service you want to expose.

      This way it’s a bit more secure, since the exposed endpoint is hosted by Tailscale and routed to your device via your Tailscale (encrypted) network.

      Using Funnel, no one needs to have the Tailscale client.

    • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
      2·
      9 months ago

      Dynamic DNS only works if your IP is publicly routable. My ISP (not sure about OP) puts us behind NAT, so the only way to expose services on my network is through a tunnel, like a VPN.

      But many ISPs do provide a routable IP. My last ISP did, so it’s not uncommon.

      And you don’t necessarily need to own an IP, services like FreeDNS let you use a subdomain from someone else, but a domain can be as little as $1/year (for TLDs like .site and .store), so it’s probably better to just get one. I have like 10 domains, and they only cost $10/year each or so. But if you just want to try out hosting something, using someone else’s isn’t a bad way to go.

  • CaptainSpaceman@lemmy.world
    62·
    9 months ago

    Best guess would be a privacy focused chat app like Signal or Matrix.

    Otherwise you may want to look at crypto bases file storage ala Filecoin or potentially even Pixelfed

  • hitmyspot@aussie.zone
    4·
    9 months ago

    While self hosted will obviously be better, you have to balance that with simplicity for non tech users.

    We use the paid app tinybeans. Doing it now, I’d consider hosting a stability photos folder.

  • DeuxChevaux@lemmy.world
    4·
    9 months ago

    I use DokuWiki for this type of thing. With a few add-ons it is nicely configurable (galleries, discussions etc), could be run from any webspace, and doesn’t need a database. You can have ACLs that make sure that only registered users get access. But it is a bit of a DIY solution, and takes a bit of work to set up.

    • Adalast@lemmy.worldOP
      3·
      9 months ago

      I’m not above getting my hands dirty and this sounds like it could have promise. Thank you.

  • Olivia@lemmy.today
    41·
    9 months ago

    If you and your partner both have iphones then iCloud should be sufficient for keeping the photos to yourselves if you turn on Advanced Data Protection. I think it requires you and your partner to have two yubikeys at a minimum though.

    https://support.apple.com/guide/security/advanced-data-protection-for-icloud-sec973254c5f

    Photos encrypted at rest, only you and your partner will have access to the keys. If you want the convenience of icloud backup then the government would be able to subpoena your decryption keys from your phone backups, but it’s not going to be available for casual employee access. Automated tagging/face matching is done by your iPhone when it’s plugged in so there’s some organization. Nothing close to Google’s AI organization.

    I know Apple is a shit company. But they’ve learned a thing or two after the Fappening.

    Advanced Data Protection should be the minimum setting for you to consider Apple as your photo storage. Your photos will auto upload from your phones, apple has partner sharing so photo libraries will automatically be shared between you and your partner, and they recently implemented a system similar to “signal key verification”, but again limited to ADP turned on.

    Otherwise you’re looking at Proton or Tresorit.

    • Adalast@lemmy.worldOP
      71·
      9 months ago

      I will happily look at the alternatives. We avoid Apple like it carries the plague, mostly on my objections to their licensing policies alone. Also, I love that you linked to something about The Fappening, have a 💯 and my heartiest appreciation for you as a scholar and a gentleman.

    • Adalast@lemmy.worldOP
      3·
      9 months ago

      Ideally, as easy to interface with as possible for non-tech literate users. My mother-in-law once told my wife “I don’t know why you would ever want to strengthen your mind.” in response to confronting my wife on why she was reading a book outside as a child instead of playing physically. This is a mantra she has continued well into her 50’s and is still going “strong”. I need something she can access and download pictures from to print off and hang on her wall like she does from FB now. This is essentially the low bar. Everyone else should be more competent than that.

  • RobotDaniel@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    2·
    9 months ago

    Could set up a nextcloud instance, but might be a bit overkill for your use case as it is a full Google workspace replacement