• havokdj@lemmy.world
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    2 years ago

    I cannot stress enough that if you are an adult and you think you have autism, do not get an on the record diagnosis.

    It is only filled with negatives. Not only will you likely NOT receive help, but that diagnosis can be used against you for pretty much anything besides getting a job, INCLUDING YOUR POTENTIAL CHILDREN.

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      2 years ago

      That’s how I felt when I got diagnosed with severe anxiety.

      “Well that explains it…FUCK! Now I have that to deal with. What do I do?”

      Turns out being diagnosed with anxiety is anxiety fuel. There’s no help because it’s so personal. just someone adding on more shit to deal with and some generic advice that doesn’t really help.

      Rejecting the diagnosis was a big part of overcoming it.

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      2 years ago

      (ADHD here)

      If I may ask, what sort of negatives could happen? How would the diagnosis be used against you in various situations? How would it be used against your children?