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Cake day: June 22nd, 2023

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  • It’s nobody’s decision but yours, but I will point out that as humans, we are very poor predictors of how we will think or feel in the future.

    When we’re depressed, our brains process thoughts of the future as if we’ll be sad forever. When we’re happy and have lots of energy, we make big plans as if we’ll always feel that way. Lottery winners feel an initial euphoria and think they’re set for life, but studies show their mood returns to baseline after about 1 year. Age and development helps you push the fog of foresight a little further, but it’s still hard.

    I don’t know you, but if I were speaking to myself at age 22, I would caution making a decision like that so early. I still cringe about being tasked with picking a college major at 18 and how wrong that could’ve gone, and this is easily 100x more important.






















  • Certain platforms screen for a list of trigger words and reduce visibility in their algorithms, which leads to people self-censoring and/or using weird euphemisms like “unalive”. I think it’s stupid and will usually reverse image search to find an uncensored version before posting to Lemmy, but I didn’t have any luck with this one.

    (I do also think it has become a trend for people to self-censor even when they don’t have to because they’re so used to seeing it that way on tiktok or whatever)












  • I love reading people’s first time experience with these games.

    Demon’s Souls was the last of the Souls games I played, and I thought it was hard still. The bosses aren’t as frenetic and complex as later titles, but the levels and the navigation is brutal. I still remember running back in that swamp over and over and over.

    I also remember grinding out weapon upgrade materials in a cave for literal hours, because I didn’t see any other way to get enough.