I want to be respectful but if they say they don’t care what pronouns I use for them, that feels like it puts the decision on me to choose what to call them and I guess I would probably default to “they” because choosing a gender for them feels weird… am I wrong?
What do the people who are bad with names do?
Audibly shit their pants, obviously
Get my name wrong all the fucking time. “oh I bet you get that a lot”
Jesus fuck I wish people would just misgender me so I could get righteously indigent instead of constantly correcting people with a smile.