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Cake day: November 14th, 2023

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  • People seem to like to call people transphobic nowadays I guess. I had some nut job here on Lemmy calling me transphobic despite no evidence of it. They followed me around on my previous comments calling me a transphobe. I asked them to post screenshots for everyone to see the evidence. Multiple times. I said I would apologize for anything that could be misconstrued as transphobic, and try to make it clearer what I actually meant to say. No reply.

    People are just weird sometimes. Maybe they don’t know what the words mean that they use. Ignore it, is my advice.

    I like my wife to be smooth on her legs, and semi smooth downstairs. She likes herself fully smooth though.

    I even like myself smooth, but my wife doesn’t want me fully smooth.

    It’s all just preference. 🤷‍♂️ Nothing to do with gender at all, in our case.






  • https://mailfence.com/

    One more second of searching. 🤷‍♂️

    Look, I made a comment on your comment, just to be informative, and that’s a purpose that adds something. You can say it’s not all you want, but somebody might find it informative to know that those two aren’t the only options.

    It really does sound like you took it personally, I’m sorry, but it does.

    I’m just saying to anyone reading your top level comment: “other options are available”. I know this post is asking for recommendations, but recommendations should be in top level comments then, IMO.

    You’d think someone would be happy to learn that there are more options. 🙄





  • Agreed. 😄 Arch and pacman definitely adheres to this philosophy of “unless you know what you’re doing”. Pacman allows this type of selective upgrade, and it allows to ignore any package you like during a system/all-package upgrade, which may or may not break the system.

    You can also post-install make changes to the database of installed packages, like change the install reason for a package (as a dependency or as explicitly installed).

    All these things are happily executed without warning. 😁

    The reason for the need to check the news is that the system can have any combination of package versions installed, and requiring manual intervention by the user in any quirky upgrade situations helps to keep the complexity down of the system and package manager. I think it’s worth the low complexity.

    The overhead of checking the website is super low. It’s basically the same as checking the release notes when there’s a new version of Ubuntu, or whatever other software you might be curious of. Same thing.





  • I’m saddened that you think me pointing out there are other options is “disagreeing”. I’m just offering the insight to readers of your comment that there are other options.

    It’s not difficult to find, if you just search for “email provider with encryption” or similar. Pick your favorite.

    The point I was making was that people shouldn’t feel like there are only two options. 🙂 Please don’t take that as me disagreeing with you personally.

    I’m referring to encryption at the provider level

    So was I. 👍