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Cake day: August 1st, 2023

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  • There’s people who get their satisfaction by trying to give advice to others, even if it’s completely wrong or unhinged. They repeat the standard things just to feed their ego, not to actually help the person they’re talking to.

    The best therapy an inexperienced person can give is just talking and listening to the person. You’ll know the difference if the person seems genuinely interested in the person who has the problem.





  • I don’t get why the only solution is to trust others to take care of you.

    Society is built around people “taking care” of you in different ways. Like being a doctor, a teacher, an employer, the police, etc.

    That’s why we grew out of being caveman, because we’re built to be cooperative with each other in our DNA. If we didn’t, we’d either be small tribes or individuals and probably die out really fast. It’s because we need others to rely on or we’d literally be extinct.