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Cake day: June 18th, 2023

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  • Oh, yeah for removing the loose bark you probably want to do the steel wire first, then the nylon to remove any dust or small flakes. You could also do steel wool, but depending on how rough the surface is it might shred and leave little bits behind.

    For an irregular surface like this you might also consider spray polyurethane for finishing, it will be easier to apply and the surface doesn’t have to be perfectly smooth.


  • What kind of cleaning are you trying to accomplish?

    If you just want to remove dirt and debris, use a nylon bristle brush. If you want to remove loose splinters from the surface, use a brass wire brush. If you want to scrub the surface down to accept stain/finish without completely smoothing out the original texture, use a steel wire brush.

    You can get brushes like these at any hardware store

    If you do need to sand the surface smooth, consider a sanding sponge:

    This will wrap around the curves and ride over the bumps and won’t tear up like sandpaper. You can also wet sand with it.













  • Do you want to help this person be better, or do you want to protect yourself from them?

    The first will require that they are receptive in some way to being helped, so it may be impossible.

    The second… well, you’ve described a deeply insecure person. The need to constantly remind other people how much better they are demonstrates a real fear of being found to be inadequate. If you can determine the source and/or subject of the insecurity you can potentially weaponize it against them. That’s risky though, it may make you more of a target for retribution.

    Remember, you can’t fix someone else, they can only fix themselves. You can offer guidance, but that only works if they’re open to being guided.

    Perhaps the best course of action is more zen… let them learn their own lessons. Isolate yourself from damage as much as possible, and just wait for them to crash and burn. Make popcorn.