It’s interesting to meet someone else who also struggles with an overuse of parentheses and ellipses (I didn’t know what they were called, thanks for that!).
This is a complete shot in the dark, but do you also happen to be on the spectrum? (I have nothing to base this on expect my theory that overclarification could be more common among neurodivergent people)
Edit: ellipsis -> ellipses
We feed them primaly wet food 3 times a day. But if we are away over 9 hours, we give them dry food in toys to find.
All three of them gain weight easily, so we have to control their food intake