

Both my parents smoked, my mom quit when she got pregnant with me (so I’ve been told). My sperm donor did not quit, and piled alcohol and weed addictions on top. So my mom was certainly around a lot of secondhand smoke while I was incubating.
I was diagnosed with ADHD in my late 40’s. Pretty sure one of my two sisters also has it but probably not diagnosed (I haven’t asked).
I don’t understand. What is this magical ability you are referencing?