Forgive me if this kind of post isn’t allowed.
I wanted to ask people what was new going on with their pets, if they had maybe learned something about them, or maybe just gotten one. Just two examples.
For my part, I have two adopted boys (Champion and Bowser) and had to, a couple years ago, move back in with my mom and now we share a house with her and her two dogs. Champion has always had a lot of behavioral challenges, which led to me doing extra work at my previous job to learn how to train him better (I worked at a doggy daycare and we had to also learn how to train dogs.)
But somewhere along the way between moving to a new place and having to work with him to teach him it was okay for the other dogs to play together (among various other things I’ve had to help him learn), Champ lost interest in most things other than a bit of play outside (he’s still a bit rough around the edges there too) and sleeping on my bed. He’s very difficult to walk because of his anxiety, too.
However!
Recently he started showing interest in a rope toy and when I picked it up and waved it, he grabbed onto the other end and started to pull. We had a great, really long session of tug-o-war and he was really worn out by the end. I’ve managed to replicate it several times now and it’s given me a lot of hope for not just play time, but that he might be able to do things like walks in the future again.
What’s going on in everyone else’s pet parent lives?
This kind of post isn’t just allowed, it’s encouraged
oh man, 6 teeth is a lot! I’m really glad that recovery seems to be going well!
Bowser had to have one tooth removed (we thought it would be more) and had a seizure when they sedated him. things are a lot better now, but I know how nerve wracking it can be to have something like that done. give Buster some scritches for me!
When I first learned of feline tooth reabsorption, I was surprised! Good on you for taking him to the specialist. It’s so hard to tell when their teeth are messy beyond having your vet look at them.
Dodo had all her teeth pulled because of this too. Nerve wrecking but she seems rather well adjusted now. 💚
May buster live pain free now!
My overweight cat is starving to death on his new diet.
More on this story at 11 and 12. And 12:30. And 1 and 1:30 and 2 and 3 after a short nap.
I hope you’re going to help Champ be a happy boi
As for me, my cat’s waiting for my return with the documents. She’s living in my friend’s apartment, and requires some paperwork to be allowed to travel. It’s going to take some more time to be done, but I hope to see her in April 🥲
I always do my best to make sure he’s happy and healthy, of course! he’s recently gotten on some anti-anxiety medication which has been doing a lot of work in helping in that too, so I’m really grateful for it.
I hope you get to see your cat soon too! where are you traveling?
Moving to Spain :)
Tug is hands down one of the best bonding games, I’m glad he’s playing it with you. Get it, Champ!
Our Australian shepherd Sudo loves running through our woods, but he always comes back with twigs and things tangled in his fur. Having them removed and getting out the knots they create has never been a thing he’s enjoyed, but he’s been getting so much better about it since we started treating it like a cooperative care activity instead of something we have to do to him. I’ll still have to ask to do it sometimes, but he’s been coming up to me and rolling over to show me the sticks he’s collected more and more often. He even fell asleep the other day during the brushing afterwards!
yes! Bowser likes fetch but only a little, he much prefers to hold a tennis ball in his mouth while one of my mom’s dogs plays with him. I’m hoping to get him and my mom’s very skittish dog Maggie out for walks now that it’s nicer out (Maggie loves being outside, she’s just fearful.)
ooo, can you explain “cooperative care activity” a bit? I feel like even though I was a professional, I’m such a novice at training and dog care.
I think this article does a great job explaining it and provides a training game to teach the skills. The basics of it involve giving your dog the opportunity to earn good treats for tolerating grooming tasks we have to do like nail trims or brushing our mats and knots, and teaching them that they can choose whether the activity (and associated treats) continues.
In the beginning it’s important to structure it so the dog learns that focusing on the treat container regardless of what we’re doing is what earns the treat, so actually clipping nails or pulling combs through is right out. Instead it’s about mimicking the motions we’ll be doing as part of the grooming and working up to using the comb, brush, clippers, or swabs.
“You have agency” is sometimes a tough thing to teach a dog, but in this regard you can make a lot of progress towards that understanding by stopping the activity when your dog expresses discomfort and only resuming if they go back to focusing on the treat container. If they’re done, you’re done - but you can always ask if they’ll play the grooming game again later. “Pat, Pet, Pause” is another small game that can help your dog understand that you’ll respect when they give or rescind consent for things you’re doing.
saving this article for later! thank you much.
Champion does shockingly well with the groomer (related, I know you can’t go to the groomer every time your dog goes running through the woods, of course!) I picked for him, but she’s a very kind and gentle person, especially with dogs. he likes her a lot, which I’m very grateful for. that said, working with my dogs is something I enjoy so I think exposing him to the stuff in the article (and Bowser too) would be beneficial anyway.
Two of our cats recently had to go to the hospital for biopsies. They’re both fully recovered.
The oldest doesn’t have cancer – just a chronic inflammation in his nose we’ll have to control with steroids.
The other… they suspect small cell lymphoma. We’re still waiting for the results of the second round of tests. He’ll start oral kemo if it comes back positive. Prognosis is “a few years of quality life”
I love this post idea!
I’ve recently commited the unforgivable crime of leaving Dodo for two nights. She had other favorite two leggers show up but how dare!!! When I came back she tried very hard to be mad at me but she just loves cuddles too much.
For your champ: have you tried anti anxiety music for dogs? It’s free on YouTube and Dodo likes the cat variety a lot.
I have tried different music with him, yup! he seems very partial to lo-fi, which is nice because I enjoy listening to it as well. my preference is to just leave it on for the dogs since it’s helped them stay mellow during the day, but my mom isn’t really into it.
and oh, I know how that goes! if I even leave to go to the grocery store (which is a couple blocks away, so I’m only gone a short period of time) or take a walk, Bowser and Champion will wait near the door until I return. they’re like “no!! mom!! no leave!! only stay!!” hahaha.
I’m just starting to get into aquariums. Had one as a kid and now that I’ve got my own place I can do the naturalistic planted tank(s) of my dreams! Got the substrate and hardscape sorted yesterday, going back to the shop for plants today!
First tank is only 27L but a friend gave me a 65L one that is going to be epic!
I love planted tanks. It’s like gardening and fish keeping in one. I have been keeping them for 5 years now. It becomes an addiction and before you know it you have way too many tanks. I tell everyone that if you’re going to get into freshwater aquariums, there’s no reason not to plant your tank. The upsides are hard to beat. Clean water all the time, no water changes, and much healthier livestock.
We’ve got a 12 year old mixed breed dog (part Irish Wolfhound) with arthritis in her hips and spine and she’s really been struggling to get up on our hard floors. My wife did some research and found Dr Buzby’s toe grips. They seem expensive for little bits of rubber, but two days in now and they seem to actually work!
