Bro, you let her DM for the first time in your group and then you decided to not engage at all with the storyline. She panicked and wasn’t sure how to bring an argumentative player back into the fold so she prevented you best she did.

I’m kinda with her, man. It’s your responsibility as a player to engage with the story. As a near forever DM, this type of shit from my players is exactly what would get you removed from my table. We’re all here to tell a story together. Part of that is the willingness to tell that story together. It is not the DMs responsibility to play to your characters specific personality to get them involved when the DM is running it for everyone. That is asking way too much from your DM and is, honestly, really self-centered of a way to go about things.

YOU designed your character. It is YOUR responsibility to design them in such a way that they’re interested in the story. NOT the DMs.